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If you support gay marriage, this one is for you.

4/23/2012

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Some NC voters have already decided they will vote to officially write ignorance into our state constitution on May 8th.  They will not be dissuaded over the next two weeks.  At this point, the rest of us can only hope to outnumber them.

To that end, I'll share something I've learned over a couple of decades of being involved in the fight for gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender rights.  I hope it inspires you to discuss this upcoming vote with the people around you in whatever way you normally engage, knowing you may be helping the cause more than you realize just by talking informally.

Obviously many LGBT people are still in the closet, and the increasing popular attention to this issue is a double-edged sword; as voices of acceptance and support grow stronger, so do the voices of hostility and judgement.  For the same reason, some straight people who have gay loved ones can be just as closeted.  Even those who feel no personal connection to the issue, but are offended by the obstruction of gay rights, sometimes stay quiet too.  In certain environments, simply speaking up against intolerance appears treacherous. 

In the conservative settings we sometimes find ourselves in at work, at church, with relatives, or in some whole towns, voicing progressive ideas can feel like walking on eggshells.  So if you do feel comfortable speaking up for LGBT issues in a group situation, there may be someone quietly listening to you, amazed to find they are not alone.  You may not know it then, you may never know it.  But more than once I have later learned that incidental comments I've made have been silently appreciated.  It's an unexpected pleasure to find out that during some past party or break room conversation at work, I have unknowingly signaled my support to a quiet observer.  You don't have to show up at a rally to make a difference.  If you feel like you are in a position to speak up, even in a low-key way, do.

Of course in general I myself am a rowdier troublemaker than most.  But I also try to remember that sometimes social progress takes place without fanfare, in the simplest social settings. 

Just something to keep in mind over the next couple of weeks.  The TV ads and news stories are starting to get intense, so it's easy to get anxious.  Let's just keep talking to the folks in our own circles, and trust that most people, in the privacy of the voting booth, will do the right thing. 

VOTE MAY 8TH


Get all the voter info you need from the Wake County
Board of Elections website
  • polling places
  • early voting
  • sample ballot
  • official explanation of the amendment by the NC Secretary of State
  • listing of all the primary candidates in each party
Here are some great facebook pages to check out and share:
  • facebook.com/equalitync
  • facebook.com/ProtectNCFamilies
  • facebook.com/events/Vote-AGAINST-Amendment-One
  • facebook.com/pages/My-Marriage-Is-Not-Threatened-By-Gay-Marriage-in-NC
  • facebook.com/FaithProtectsNCFamilies

TO GET LEARN MORE AND INVOLVED:  The Coalition to Protect NC Families


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